“Now Lord don’t move my mountains but give me the strength to climb, and Lord don’t take away my stumblin’ blocks but lead me all around.” – Black Gospel SpiritualIt’s the month of November and while the marketplace would like for us to focus on the more lucrative Christmas holiday, I hope we each take a moment to reflect on what Thanksgiving really means.
While a few of us refuse to admit it, we do live in a free and prosperous nation where even the most impoverished among of us would be considered wealthy in any other part of the world. Still, on daily basis many of us manage to find something to grumble and moan about.
Lately, I’ve come to the realization that for all of the problems I thought I had, there are literally thousands who’re dealing with life-altering situations everyday and doing so without a grumbling or despair। And while I don’t know all of them, I can mention three individuals who are climbing mountains and negotiating stumbling blocks with a unique combination of outer steely determination and inner spiritual peace।
They are a living testimony of what Thanksgiving is really about. First there’s Susie Thompson, wife of a very close friend of mine Indianapolis firefighter Earl Thompson. On November 11, 2000 Susie a mother of three, was diagnosed with breast cancer. As she and her family began to engage in a battle for her life she also labored to comfort her mother Betsy Wilson who had recently been diagnosed with lung cancer. For the next two years Susie and her family fought a two-front emotional and physical war. While dealing with chemotherapy treatment and multiple operations, she tirelessly traveled three times a week to North Vernon to care for her dying mother.
Yet through it all Susie never lost faith or her zest for life. In February of this year Betsy finally found everlasting peace, however with the support of her family Susie stands alive and triumphant atop her mountain of adversity. Then there is Patricia Henderson-Brown, a young lady whose life reads like a textbook of faith and perseverance. After eloping at the age of 18, she soon found herself a single mother of three without a high school degree. Yet through it all she overcame these stumbling blocks.
Today she has a daughter studying Russian and Psychology at Texas A&M, a son mastering computer technology in our military and a daughter who will soon make her mark on the world. As for Patricia? Well she’s finished her doctorate degree in E-commerce.
Finally there’s someone I’ve literally watch grow from a baby into a man. He’s my youngest brother, Vincent Randolph. He was born the day after Christmas in 1977. Soon after his birth, Vince was diagnosed with a mild case of cerebral palsy. Over the last 25 years I’ve watched him face his own personal challenges with uncontested courage. He’s more focused than I was at his age and possesses a mind and wit as sharp as a blade.
Admittedly there were times I lamented the fact that he would never able to play sports or even become a firefighter like his two older brothers. At the time I really didn’t understand that his goals were greater than I could’ve imagined. You see, my brother while exercising due diligence, is working to become a fine attorney one day. And for him nothing as minor as a slight walking disability is going to stand in the way.
Contrary to popular belief, no one is guaranteed a life without hardship. Each of us must climb our mountains and navigate our stumbling blocks. Each of us has a thousand reasons to be thankful, however, sometimes we just need a little reminder.
Not in your dream house? Right now someone is sleeping under a bridge
Is your desk or office not big enough? Right now someone is wishing they had a job. Annoyed by your spouse’s habits? Right now someone is going home to an empty house. Kids not always perfect angels? Right now someone wishes they could have just one. Overbearing parents? Right now someone wishes they could find theirs. Not as young as you want to be? Right now there’s a child is on life-support.
If by some chance you still can’t relate, I’ve got a simple one for you: Got breath? Give thanks.





